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Posted on Sep 04, 2007 at 07:14 AM

Drew.. Listen to Lion... LUCKY, IS GOING TO BE THE GIRL THAT GETS HIM... If that collar doesn't work on you... You know what the next step is....

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Posted on Sep 04, 2007 at 05:56 AM

Integrity is a hard thing to find these days in many people male or female. Our attention spans are shrinking and the only thought is to instant gratification. If you must step out of a relationship to find happiness then maybe you should not have been in the relationship to start with. Relationships are hard work and unless both people are giving 100% which includes communication then how can the relationship survive? If their needs are not being met then the root to the cause needs to be found. How can you find the root to the problem if you are running around on your partner? When talking with your spouse and working together on finding the root cause could not only save a relationship but make it stronger. Just because the world around you is falling into corruption and decadence does not mean it is OK for you to fall as well. Karma is a wicked and painful thing sometimes. If you cheat you could die! To many STD's that can kill are out there. Not to mention if you do go back to your spouse and share the itch so to speak. Just some thoughts, LP

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Posted on Sep 03, 2007 at 10:17 PM

Only if you're going to hold the leash... LOL

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Posted on Sep 03, 2007 at 10:13 PM

keywest... ; D yOu ... NEED A COLLAR...lol

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Posted on Sep 03, 2007 at 09:51 PM

I cheat because women are just so damn beautiful.

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Posted on Sep 03, 2007 at 07:40 PM

why men cheat..thats pretty easy..if they are NOT getting enough sex at home then they go find it else where..women do the same thing...dont kid your selfs.if your sex life at home doesnt keep your interest then you go else where (male or female)

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Posted on Sep 03, 2007 at 03:30 PM

I think one of the biggest problems about cheating today is that it has become a "norm" in society. The last statistics i heard was running neck to neck at about 54/48%. Society as a whole has a lot to do with cheating on your spouse. It's become so easy to divorce. You really do not need a good reason. People have become more shallow. There are both men and women who need to have an adventure. Everyones doing it!. The "character" aspect has been broke. Sometimes it is torn down by an individual. Sometimes it is the person themselves. They make any excuse they need to feel "ok" with doing it. Marriage takes work and so many do not want to work at it. When the problems start they easily can change you for a "new model". It's not always about the sex. That's just an excuse. I have known women who have told me that the sex was phenomenal and it still happened or they divorced. Of course other reason could come into play here. But the one common denominator is the world has changed. The morals have become almost nil in this country. Everything is legal or at someones beck and call. So in essence it's your character/stamina/morality/beliefs that will keep you faithful. If any of these start to crumble then you are now in that 54% probablility

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Posted on Sep 03, 2007 at 01:57 AM

I cheat at Poker.

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Posted on Sep 01, 2007 at 10:32 PM

Monk.....you are brilliant. I have no comments except that I think you are a extremely resourceful entrepenuer and you're cute too!

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Posted on Aug 12, 2007 at 03:48 PM

I feel most men cheat on their sig others b-cuz they don't get their sexual desires met. If your partner is satisfying you to the fullest extent you have no reason to stray.A satisfyied man a happy man.

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Posted on Jul 29, 2007 at 11:00 PM

Shannon gave some great insight, and it applies to both men and women who cheat. And often with women that cheat they even perceive that they are 'in love'. Just like Shannon said, its a 'void'. Sometimes like a 'hole in your heart'.

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Posted on Jul 29, 2007 at 05:27 PM

So tire of the why men cheat deal. I been with the same woman for 25 years and i just found that she cheated on me for the 3rd and final time. I'm sick of men being called dogs. If that's the case it's B@#$% that breed us! Please forgive me for the comment. Women look at lifetime tv which bash men all day long and then thats what they expect to get. I have put myself back in the mix to find someone who appreciates a man who is a one woman man. What I have gone through icould fill that one day amonth where lifetime tv shows the women as bad and the men good.

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Posted on Jul 29, 2007 at 05:23 PM

So tire of the why men cheat deal. I been with the same woman for 25 years and i just found that she cheated on me for the 3rd and final time. I'm sick of men being called dogs. If that's the case it's B@#$% that breed us! Please forgive me for the comment. Women look at lifetime tv which bash men all day long and then thats what they expect to get. I have put myself back in the mix to find someone who appreciates a man who is a one woman man. What I have gone through icould fill that one day amonth where lifetime tv shows the women as bad and the men good.

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Posted on Jul 29, 2007 at 04:04 PM

Monk... Still going strong... i SEE... Monk, why don't you bring your friends to the political blogs, so they can get fired up, and maybe we'll all see next year... That would be nice.. : )

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Posted on Jul 12, 2007 at 01:01 PM

Cheating is an attempt to fill an insatiable need some people have due to poor self-esteem. I've read a couple of responses alluding to a 'hole' men are trying to fill. Much like an addiction, the person feels a void in their chest, somewhere where their heart should be, and in futility he or she tries to fill that void with material, physical, spiritual, emotional or sexual satisfatiction. But just like addiction, the more you feed the monster, the bigger it gets. Sometimes it's easier to just numb oneself to the void altogether. Substances, alcohol and other forms of "fulfillment" don't fill that void, but if the void is big and it hurts, numbing it for awhile is a huge relief. You have to ask; does my self-esteem come from my own perception of myself and how much I value myself, or does it always come from the outside; from conquering the unconquerable, acheiving the unacheivable, and attaining the unattainable. If I conquer you because I think you're hot, it was never and never will be about you. You are an object I'm trying to fill my void with. And it doesn't fill it, but maybe it'll make you forget it's there for awhile. Just an object; like the house I thought I could never afford, the trip I thought I'd never take and the person I thought I'd never get. So self-esteem is part of the bottom line. If I don't have a void because my self-validation comes from a healthy self-image, good friends, spirituality and unconditional love (from family, spouses, children, a higher power, etc.) then getting that house and 'landing' that hot guy is just icing on the cake. And self-esteem is obviously another topic altogether, rooted in childhood and sustained by a healthy ratio of nature vs. nurture. Men cheat if they are unhappy with themselves more often than if they are unhappy with their partner. And they know they are doing something wrong, which eats away at their self-worth and esteem and on goes the cycle. Plus, conquering tells me "I still got i...

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Posted on Jul 11, 2007 at 03:55 PM

Thanks Steele Magnolia... very good points. I will include your ideas in our survey questions.

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Posted on Jul 09, 2007 at 06:19 PM

realmendonotcheat.

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Posted on Jul 09, 2007 at 04:05 PM

A T-shirt for sale in New Orlean's sums it up..... "Boy's are stupid...let's throw rocks at them." Susan

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Posted on Jun 30, 2007 at 06:35 AM

Dear Monk, Was thinking about the cheating and left out one of the most important parts of the marriage being destroyed...the children. I stated that my ex and I have become friends. What I failed to mention is the outcome affecting our children. They do not forgive their father. Both are grown, both in college, and have basically written him off as a parent. They do not listen to his advice, barely talk to him on the phone, and just don't care at all about his life. So, when you write your book, you should include something about how cheating affects the children involved. It hurts me to see them act out, but I cannot change their thoughts about it all. Just keep it in mind. Thanks

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Posted on Jun 28, 2007 at 02:47 AM

cheating can be an easy alternative to trying to sort things out through the bad patches , also I think some men have an insatiable appetite for sex , they find it challenging and exciting or don?t know they are apart of a monogamous couple especially if it?s a new relationship. But I think all men know that cheating is wrong and disrespectful and in the main they do it because they are scumbags. I dont & never will understand why they dont just end the relationship 1st .

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