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Posted on May 26, 2017 at 01:53 AM

all women should be expected to reply interested or not interested, otherwise their account will be disabled. why should i send out hundreds of "I'm interested" and no women reply? I'm wasting my time and money talking to the wall. are all women on here deaf and mute? no wonder there are so many women on dating sites, they never reply. must be me that's the problem.

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Posted on May 22, 2017 at 09:26 PM

Why not make all members photo verify



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Posted on May 22, 2017 at 10:23 AM

One of my close up pictures of my face keeps getting removed from my account with no explanation. Can you please tell me why?


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Posted on May 22, 2017 at 10:14 AM

Since March my account has been hacked 3 times!! What a nightmare!! How do u get to see people without joining ? Why is that aloud? Give a 48 hours to check things out to see if you would like it or not! Maybe if eveyone had to show there drivers license and be verified right from the start!! I had to show my liscense when I got hacked.. since this site is expensive if u want to join show your Drivers liscense or u not loud to join simple as that!!!! Then these scammers can't get on!!! I'm shocked how how this site alone 3 times within 2 months I got hacked how can that be ??? I log out every time!! You need to check on your end why and how these people are getting in..... I like this site I've never had any problems on other sites until I joined this site. Work it out please i did have great workers to help me get back on my page they were geeat!!!


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Posted on May 12, 2017 at 10:32 PM

Quoting silverlion:

~~  rmac22  ~~

 

Initially, I had felt the same as you do, about that selection.

 

However, after giving it some thought, I believe it's okay to have multiple choices.  Purely for the reason that, one never knows where an acquaintance may lead to.

 

It could very well start out as ' casual ', and end in something quite solid.  I see nothing wrong, with keeping all options open.

 

~~  S L  ~~



I have no concern if someone wants to start that way.  I am just surprised to see all selected at the same time.  


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Posted on May 10, 2017 at 08:32 PM

Some people have match questions in their profiles; questions that we are encouraged to answer as they are said to be private between oneself and the profile owner.  However, I have seen xxxx’s questions and yyyy’s answers displayed in the yyyy’s  activities.  This when I was looking at yyyy’s profile and activities.

 

I have discovered at least two instances of this so I presume it is what in fact is being done.     

 

 

This should be fixed so the questions and answers are in fact private known only to the parties involved as advertised.   


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Posted on May 06, 2017 at 07:19 PM

I totally agree with you.  This site doesn't allow you to interact with anyone.  I'm frustrated.  What site is the other site that you frequent?  I would like to give it a try....this one stinks!


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Posted on May 01, 2017 at 11:59 AM

Suppose someone reports some questionable activity by someone they are a interacting with on MM.  No proof of wrong doing or intent of same, but questionable.  Their word only.  Is the person investigated to make sure they are not unjustly booted out?  

 

 

Concern:  Over enthusiasm to find 10 scammers. 


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Posted on Apr 30, 2017 at 11:47 PM

Quoting rmac22:

I have wondered at the selection casual intimate.  What does that mean?  If it means what it could mean how can a person be looking for a long term serious relationship (LTSR) or marriage at the same time?  Friendship or dating maybe?



~~  rmac22  ~~

 

Initially, I had felt the same as you do, about that selection.

 

However, after giving it some thought, I believe it's okay to have multiple choices.  Purely for the reason that, one never knows where an acquaintance may lead to.

 

It could very well start out as ' casual ', and end in something quite solid.  I see nothing wrong, with keeping all options open.

 

~~  S L  ~~


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Posted on Apr 29, 2017 at 12:29 PM

well for the first two weeks i would make new members able to talk other members that way if they relly like them they can mak a full account at normal price i know i have alot of members that i would like to talk to but cant so i think it would just be easiest to make it open for two weeks only

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Posted on Apr 29, 2017 at 08:42 AM

I am reporting user name sunsh9360 ......female user and calling herself mimi

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Posted on Apr 29, 2017 at 08:29 AM

I have to report a female who messaged me to match me to his friend who is not a member and they were asking for email and to clicked on the link these people are obviously scummer and hacker telling me that she successfully found someone here and is closing her account and referring me to his friend by email outside this site come to find out few days ago that shes still on this site and sometimes keeping her photos hidden... all these are really highly suspicious! I will find her user name and will report it.....she have short hair in her late 40s

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Posted on Apr 29, 2017 at 08:10 AM

I have wondered at the selection casual intimate.  What does that mean?  If it means what it could mean how can a person be looking for a long term serious relationship (LTSR) or marriage at the same time?  Friendship or dating maybe?


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Posted on Apr 29, 2017 at 02:59 AM

Quoting rmac22:

Give both the profile owner and the comment writer the ability to remove a comment.  We change and sometimes our judgement improves on a few days reflection.  Hiding comments for the profile owner helps, but some, I am sure, the profile owner would just like gone.  

 

Same idea for comments on pictures.  I saw one comment on a ladies picture that if it was in the comment section would not pass review at least according to the written instructions.  If the lady had the right to remove it I can't imagine it surviving a day.  I know she can complain, but oddly enough few like to do that.   

 

 

None of this applies to any comment on my profile.



~~  rmac22   &   Management  ~~

 

A great suggestion, and I fully agree with it. 

 

I spotted the following comment, on an attractive lady's profile, right after reading the above post :

 

" Hi your a great looking gentleman hubba bubba. Thanks for your service. Very much appreciated i would stand proud beside y n have a drink "

 

There are of course, many others that certainly embarrass the human specie, let alone the MM site. 

 

~~  S L  ~~


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Posted on Apr 28, 2017 at 10:36 PM

i have found that there are lots of people scamming on here- and if they dont show picture thats a sign, and if they start asking for itunes gift cards or any kind of cards - stop it and report it total scam-

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Posted on Apr 28, 2017 at 09:30 PM

Give both the profile owner and the comment writer the ability to remove a comment.  We change and sometimes our judgement improves on a few days reflection.  Hiding comments for the profile owner helps, but some, I am sure, the profile owner would just like gone.  

 

Same idea for comments on pictures.  I saw one comment on a ladies picture that if it was in the comment section would not pass review at least according to the written instructions.  If the lady had the right to remove it I can't imagine it surviving a day.  I know she can complain, but oddly enough few like to do that.   

 

 

None of this applies to any comment on my profile.


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Posted on Apr 26, 2017 at 08:24 PM

Just joined last night!

Suggest remove lecherous comments section on peoples profiles. No-one wants to read comments from desperados posted on a prospects profile it brings down the whole tone of the site...what millionaire writes/pays heed to that kind of crap? and being online only makes it even more seedy its like repulsive cyberharrassment! and its gross.

 

If keeping the site in its current form:

Provide a free one week trial to all new members for their first week and/or intermittently....that would help you identify and weed out the scammers pretty quick as they jump on the bandwagon and harrass the heck out of everyone and would also bring in some fresh real talent to run by your millionaires.

 

If not keeping the site in its current form:

You will need some staff to help up the ante!

 

Make the millionaires pay on a month to month basis to stay in the game rather than 3, 6months, or 1 yr. Everyone else can be screened during their free initial access week as a prospect seeking a millionaire by the millionaire seeking a partner.

 

Erase profiles that are inactive or have been for longer than a month (eg not even logged on). These two moves would promote more action on the part of participants (the millionaires) in terms of motivation to get seeking before their membership expires at the end of the month.

 

If it truly is millionaire match then shouldn't all "so called millionaires" be verified and let them determine the income range/attributes they want in a match and only make those matches for them? Can't you send every millionaire on your list (there can't be that many of them) an alert to new profiles added to the site and if none appeal send a rejection email to the new member thanking them for their participation and inviting them to reapply next month when you might have new millionaires that might be interested?!

 

Obviously all this would require your service to be funded by the millionaires...but is that not who it was originally intended to provide for?

 

 

Match.com works for the majority of the population aka the non millionaires. Millionaires are not the majority so maybe stick to why you set up the site in the first place and weed out the others.

 

Maybe set up a 500,000 site and a 100,000 site too if you want but dont call a site the millionaire match if you dont cater exclusively for millionaires!

 

just my opinion


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Posted on Apr 25, 2017 at 11:19 PM

oh yes, agree, interest matters

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Posted on Apr 23, 2017 at 06:09 PM

I read several comments. I have to say, you are going to have to make drastic changes if you want this to be a 'classy' dating site. I am very disappointed with what I have seen in the past month since joining. I have been diligent in checking it daily, doing searches, responding to those that message/email me, sending winks etc.. I have consistently tweeked my profile and added photos.

All I am attracting are 'fake' profiles. Everyone asks for my email within 2 messages. Why? This sight has a mobile app that makes it EASY to message back and forth with out using my email. I was automatically suspicious with the first 2 men asking because their profiles were short and no close up of their face or only 2 photos which were basically taken at same moment. They were not Verified Photos and Not Certified Millionaires.

Look, I don't care if a man is a millionaire or not. I just want to know that I am being protected and communicating with REAL men, not fake profiles trying to get my email so they can hack my life and steal my identity!!

If you cannot protect your clients from this then this sight is worthless and I am wasting MY money and Time.

I suggest making EVERYONE Certify Photos and even possibly Income. I don't see anything wrong with it. I would be more willing to pay your high fees to be protected from the crap I have already had to put up with.

 


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Posted on Apr 22, 2017 at 12:02 AM

I joined MM many years ago. I miss the days of the chat rooms (met a few decent people, but to this day, no one in person). I'm grandfathered in on another site, where I can fully interact and send emails, and pay zero to do so. I've noticed that I have messages on here that I can't even view, can no longer see who's viewed my profile, or really much of anything. I can go months without logging on, and not have missed anything.


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